Nolan Funeral Home, Inc.
Nancy Jean Cole
1947 - 2015
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Bernard Beirne posted a condolence
Sunday, December 13, 2015
I worked alongside Nancy at Centereach H.S. doing the BB clock and scoreboard for home games for many years. I got to see her ``up close and personal `` in the heat of many games. She always exhibited style, grace-under- pressure and always treated her athletes with respect and dignity. Nancy was one of those people who you thought would always be there for you and always was positive and optimistic.
When I found out just recently she had died, I was in total shock. She personified all that is good and rewarding in HS athletics. If you knew Nancy, you could never forget her. We have lost a truly special person and are poorer for it.
Bernard Beirne, Southport, N.C.
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Louise Grimaldi-Scarola posted a condolence
Thursday, August 13, 2015
I was so sorry to recently learn of Ms. Cole's passing. She was my gym teacher when I was a student at Centereach High School back in the 1970s. She was a wonderful lady and I loved having her as my teacher. I was not an athlete but she was never critical and always very nice. I have the fondest memories of her and am saddened by her passing. She was a terrific lady who did so much for all of the young ladies she either coached or taught in class. She will be missed. My condolences and prayers to her family.
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Jomara Coghlan posted a condolence
Sunday, April 19, 2015
Sad beyond words. Thank you for always supporting me. You helped me take my leap of faith into college coaching. I will do my best to carry your amazing coaching heart with me every day. I was blessed to have you in my life Miss Cole...we all were.
HUN-YA-HA
Love, Jomomma
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Tom Connors posted a condolence
Saturday, April 11, 2015
Nancy was a sweet person even though she was also a fierce competitor. Always ready with a smile and a hello. As a field hockey official I got to know her through the years. At one point I had been in the newspaper for an event and she took the time to drop me a card to congratulate me. I had returned the gesture when she was in an article in the paper and she thought it was great. I hear her voice always on the field through those she had coached and their comments which are similar to the ones she would use when she had coached. She was a truly nice person who will be missed.
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Barb Adams posted a condolence
Tuesday, April 7, 2015
This is so shocking! I taught with Nancy our first year out of college. We were part of a 5 woman PE teaching staff at the high schools in Middle County CSD.
Nancy was just a delight to work with and a dear friend. She attended my first wedding and visited our cottage up north.
I will always remember how Nancy grieved at the loss of Janis Joplin . She was a true Flower Child.
I'm very proud of her coaching accomplishments. And her family can be proud of such a warm, loving and talented woman. Barb Adams
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Cam gleason posted a condolence
Friday, April 3, 2015
The best belly laughs I ever had were with Nancy , aka "Futon" of the infamous "Ton" trips to hockey clinics. She was an amazing coach.
We will all miss her
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Tami E DeRose posted a condolence
Thursday, April 2, 2015
I was shocked to hear that Nancy had passed away. As a four year Varsity college and a lifetime NY Field Hockey club player, the sport and all connected with it were dear to my heart. So you can imagine how proud I was to see Nancy in the stands and one of her Fuchs girls out there representing US Field Hockey at the 1996 Olympics in Atlanta. This was a moment I will never forget. Nancy, we will remember you.
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Kathy Eaton posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 31, 2015
One of the most memorable teachers I have had during my high school years...
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FUCHS FAMILY posted a condolence
Monday, March 30, 2015
Our hearts are so heavy with sadness. You have done so much for us and others for all these years. I have so many good memories. All the games, the banquets and traveling around the world with you. What a wonderful 30 plus years. Thank you for everything. We will miss you so much. I wish I could let you know that WILSON is now a "Fuchs". He is precious and will be loved and cared for by all of us. Rest In Peace Nance. We love you.
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De Turo Family posted a condolence
Sunday, March 29, 2015
Was a great coach @ Ward Melville and brought our girls to their first and only NYState Field Hockey Championship. Was dedicated and a great team player who brought out the best in her players on and off the field. I am very lucky to have known Coach Cole and to have her in my daughter life...We had some great tailgates and great teammates during our four year run @ Melville and some great memories that I will cherish forever especially when I look @ the picture of Coach Cole with her arms held up proudly in a V shape after we had won the NYState title!! Cannot beleive that your not with us anymore but have your memories to keep in our hearts forever and to have known you!!
Forever in our hearts,
Kathy and Mike De Turo
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Kathy posted a condolence
Sunday, March 29, 2015
I have such fond memories of Miss Cole and am so sad to hear of her passing...
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David Weiss posted a condolence
Sunday, March 29, 2015
As the annual emcee of the Suffolk Sports Hall of Fame induction ceremonies, I had the privilege of meeting Coach Cole when she was inducted in 1998, and was always so pleased to see her in subsequent years at the induction dinner. She touched so many lives and had an extraordinary impact on so many people. She was more than a great coach -- she was a wonderful person who leaves a legacy that will endure. I remember speaking with Tracy Fuchs when Tracy herself was inducted in the inaugural Suffolk Sports Hall of Fame class ... I told her she was known across Suffolk as the "Wayne Gretsky of field hockey." She responded by saying, "if that's true, it's only because I played for the greatest coach in history." My deepest sympathies to the Cole family. She will be missed.
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Diane (Hiskey) Tilden posted a condolence
Sunday, March 29, 2015
I remember Coach Cole as a caring, encouraging, positive person. Thank you!
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Roberta McKinney posted a condolence
Sunday, March 29, 2015
Ms. Cole was one of my PE teachers at Centereach h.s. from 1971-1975. She was a great teacher and a wonderful person. My sincere condolences to all her friends and family. Roberta McKinney
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clare lipponer posted a condolence
Saturday, March 28, 2015
nancy you were a great coach i have memories of battling your centereach field hockey and basketball teams. RIP nancy
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Lauren Attinelly posted a condolence
Saturday, March 28, 2015
I was saddened to read about the loss of Nancy Cole. While I didn't know Nancy personally she was an icon for field hockey for all on Long Island.
I played against Nancy's Centereach team when I was on Northport's field hockey team during 1980 - 1982 seasons. We had great respect for Nancy. She even coached the Empire States team ....and I had the ability to practice under her direction for 2 sessions until I was cut.
Nancy Cole will live on in my memory. Thanks for being an inspiration for us all!
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Joe Cipp posted a condolence
Saturday, March 28, 2015
RIP Nancy. You were an iconic coach & person who will be remembered ! God Bless your family & you. Your name & legacy will last forever. Coach Joe Cipp
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The Von Bargens posted a condolence
Saturday, March 28, 2015
From a rival on the field to a coach who won our hearts. Thanks for sharing your love of the sport with our family.
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James Lamendola posted a condolence
Saturday, March 28, 2015
I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of Ms Cole. She was my home room teacher and gym teacher all four of my years at Centereach HS from 1987-1990. Ms Cole was a wonderful woman and teacher. She was very good to me and I'll always remember her as a fun loving and positive person. My sympathies go out to the Cole family. I now live in the Northport area and was very happy to hear that Ms Cole grew up here as well. What a wonderful lady!!
James Lamendola and The Lamendola family.
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Nick Puleo posted a condolence
Saturday, March 28, 2015
Coach Cole was always an inspirational woman. She touched many hearts at centereach high school. May she rest in peace and we will all miss you and may we never forget all the wonderful memories you casted upon us
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theresa Bassett posted a condolence
Saturday, March 28, 2015
As a student at Centereach High School she was a legend to me. As a Field Hockey Coach she was our inspiration. She will be missed
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Tom Ferrigno posted a condolence
Saturday, March 28, 2015
Nancy and I had a unique relationship. She coached 2 of my daughters, Casey and Kathleen for 8 consecutive seasons, a
Nd we would always chat a little during the game, but mostly before and after. Once thee season ended we both sat on the basketball court, Nancy with Centereach and I, with Wm. Floyd. We both started out as JV coaches together and continued for a long time. She was a friend and a colleague. The world has a hole in its heart tonight, now that she's gone.RIP.
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Scott and Anne Brown posted a condolence
Friday, March 27, 2015
Sounds like a life well lived. Good for you Nancy!
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Laura Spigonardo posted a condolence
Friday, March 27, 2015
Thoughts and prayers to the family and friends of Ms. Cole. Always have good memories of the nicest gym teacher in Centereach High School.
Laura
CHS Class of 1980
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Warren Fuller posted a condolence
Friday, March 27, 2015
I lost contact with Nancy when she stopped coaching girls basketball. Throughout my career whenever I reached a milestone she would drop me a line of congratulations. She was a role model not only for students and athletes but for coaches as well. I know she will truly be missed.
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Elizabeth posted a condolence
Friday, March 27, 2015
I knew Nancy for many years. I was her dog groomer,for 3 of her beloved dogs. Jack,Gracie,and now Wilson.
Nancy always came in with a smile on . She was kind and caring.
I will remember her fondly.
My condolences to her family.
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Liz McGuire posted a condolence
Thursday, March 26, 2015
One the best times of my athletic career was being coached by Ms. Cole in the Scholastic Empire State Games...She was encouraging, fun and demanding...You ALWAYS wanted to give 110% because that's the example she set. 100s of young girls were given the opportunity to "Be Their Best" and attain college scholarships through the efforts of Coach Cole..She was surely a "Game Changer" over 500 times, a game changer. May PEACE be with her and all who loved her!!
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Laura DiGregorio (Wittenbecker) posted a condolence
Thursday, March 26, 2015
I have the best memories of Centereach HS mostly due to my field hockey experience and being lucky enough to have a coach like Nancy Cole. (Ms.Cole). In the early days when our field hockey team didn't even have a field to play on at our own school and hardly anyone came to our games, Nancy made us feel like we were important, valuable young women and everyone loved playing for her. She was tough but in a caring way. She never made anyone feel like they were not good enough. She never belittled us for making mistakes. She just wanted us to play our best and that's what we did. She started a dynasty at Centereach that will always be remembered, like she will always be remembered. "When Those Saints Go Marching In..."
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Michele Dougherty posted a condolence
Thursday, March 26, 2015
Nancy was an outstanding educator,coach and person. She firmly believed that athletics was a tool to teach the qualities of personal growth, team building and success (in its broadest sense). She was an extraordinary motivator who knew just what to say to make each of her students or athletes feel special, valued or motivated to be their "best self".
For me, I will always remember Nancy as a trailblazer and pioneer of girls' sports during the infancy of Section IX Athletics (and Title IX). When there were significant inequities in women' sports, Nancy raised her voice to challenge the "status quo". Through her hard work and efforts, the future she envisioned for girls in sports became a reality. She helped to make our county's fine athletic programs for girls what they are today. Nancy was a role model for students, athletes, fellow educators, and coaches alike. She exemplified a high level of commitment in pursuing her dreams,demonstrated endurance in overcoming challenges and the ability to overcome any hurdles that stood in the way of accomplishing a goal. Above all, she was a positive, warm and fun loving person.
What a testament to a life well lived! i am honored to have known you and called you friend.
Rest in peace, Mikey Dougherty
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Cathy McSherry Taggart posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 25, 2015
Such a wonderful mentor, she will be truly missed. All of the students and althletes she touched, including me and my three sisters, are rocked by this loss. So very sorry! She was an inspiration to many of us young and competitive ladies! So sad!
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Kate Boyd posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 25, 2015
There really are no words to describe how incredible you are.
I can't thank you enough for all that you've done for me probably without even realizing it.
I Thank you for being one of the biggest inspirations in my life.
I thank you for never giving up on me and giving me a chance I wouldn't of otherwise I had.
I Thank you for seeing the potential in me that I didn't know was there.
I thank you for just being you.
You will be missed
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Kim Hannigan posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 25, 2015
I will miss Nancy's sense of humor, the way she brought out the best in any young student/athlete she can in contact with, a mentor, a role model, a person who stands up for her beliefs and for those around her. A real class Act.
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Lori Wojciechowski posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 25, 2015
What a great teacher, what a great coach. May you rest in peace in the fields of heaven Miss Cole.
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Cheryl Walsh posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 25, 2015
A class act; one of the best!! You will be missed but never forgotten. My thoughts and prayers to the family.
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Lorrie McSherry posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 24, 2015
I would not be the person I am without her influence. Mrs Cole taught more than field hockey. She will always be thought of with a smile.
She will be missed.
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Pam Watson posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 24, 2015
First. I would like to extend my heartfelt sympathies to the beloved family of Coach Cole. She spoke often and warmly of you especially sharing the love and tremendous pride she had for her nephew, Ben. My daughter, Shannon had the pleasure and privilege of attending Coach's summer camps since she was in junior high and it was there that she developed her strong passion for field hockey. Coach Cole was such an outstanding role model. At the time, Coach Cole was head coach at Centereach HS and Shannon played for Ward Melville. Every year, the two schools would battle it out meeting in the County finals year after year. Shannon went on to play field hockey in college and when she graduated, she had the pleasure of serving as Coach Cole's assistant coach at Ward Melville. She couldn't have asked for a better mentor and friend. Coach Cole knew plenty about the game of field hockey but more importantly, she taught the girls she coached such important life lessons such as honesty, integrity, pride, and work ethic; values like respect, teamwork, passion, and perseverance, all the while boosting their self esteem and encouraging them to be the best they could be. After a couple of years Coach Cole stepped down and had Shannon take the reins as head coach but continued to attend most every field hockey game, cheering from the sidelines with the same passion and encouragement she displayed when she was coaching. Coach Cole was definitely a legend and an icon and one who certainly made our world a better place. I will forever remember her with gratitude and a smile because she is truly a person I feel so blessed to have known. Heaven gained a very special angel the day Coach passed. May she rest in peace xoxo
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Judy Connor & Cyndi Weeks posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 24, 2015
Gone to soon. Left her mark on all! Very fond memories in HS gym class, in & around school with the usual suspects...Cyndi Weeks, Joan Gambino,Ann Matters. She was EVERYONES favorite.
May the family find strength & comfort knowing how much meant to so many.
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KAREN WILLIAMS posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 24, 2015
So many great memories throughout the years when you "coached" our daughters, Jeanne and Kristine. You taught them much more than the rules of Field Hockey. You helped them to become the awesome women they are today. Thank-you for the absolute best times of our lives.You will be missed. Hun Ya Ha!
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Ashley Karpeh posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 24, 2015
Coach Cole was a phenomenal coach not only because of her vast knowledge of the sport but also her ability to instill love and passion for field hockey in every player. Her smile and laughter were contagious. I am so lucky to have known such a wonderful woman. Rest in peace
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Gina Franco-Giargente posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 24, 2015
Nancy Cole was an amazing coach and role model. I have so many fun memories of our field hockey team. She will be missed by so many.
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Stephanie Hugelmeyer Dellecave posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 24, 2015
All anyone needs to know about Nancy Cole is written here by all those who knew & loved her. So much love, so much respect, so much appreciation,...she deserves it all. Heaven got a good one...
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Lisa posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 24, 2015
Coach Cole was an inspiraton and role model to so many during her long, esteemed tenure at Centereach High School. she will be missed by so many.
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Philip Tarantino posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 24, 2015
Coach Cole's support and mentorship of my daughter was significant in her development as an athlete, compassionate determined individual and overall beautiful adult. I will forever remember your voice and comments from the bleachers. RIP
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Johnette Howard posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 24, 2015
Nancy was a terrific woman and coach whose commitment, integrity, and interest in helping others was evident from the moment you met her. I always admired her conviction, and belief in the value of doing things right and fighting for what she believed. She had an enormous heart. Will miss her greatly.
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Lisa De Benedetto posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 24, 2015
My memorie of you is Centereach High School gym class. RIP
You will be missed!
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Ross Strickland posted a condolence
Monday, March 23, 2015
Nancy was a treasure to all who knew her well. I met her at age 3 when we moved next door to the Cole family. She was smart, witty and caring and will be missed. God rest her soul.
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Bev Hooper posted a condolence
Monday, March 23, 2015
My thoughts go out to Nancy's family, friends,and her many, many student athletes. Her loyalty to the Centereach and Ward-Melville Field Hockey teams and passion for the game of field hockey made an impact on everyone she met. Nancy Cole was a one-of-a-kind person, and everyone involved with Title IX and girl's athletics will miss her.
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Chris Sims posted a condolence
Monday, March 23, 2015
In praise of a life well lived.
To your courage. You have inspired so many to live by your example.
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Chris Bellini posted a condolence
Monday, March 23, 2015
You always be sining the Mama's and the Papa's with me.
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Barb Sellers posted a condolence
Monday, March 23, 2015
Most people think Nancy and I met through field hockey when Nassau County played Suffolk County, but Nancy and I were sorority sisters at Ithaca College. Yes, our Nancy was a sorority girl....I know she's laughing at that one. Great times and we actually managed to hold a field hockey stick. She had the unique talent of passing her passion for the sport on to her amazing players. A true teacher/coach touches the lives of her student athletes...job well done my friend. 'Sororitas Son Fini'
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Margaret Solan posted a condolence
Monday, March 23, 2015
The community of Sound View will miss Nancy's ready smile and sweet personality.
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Debbie Beam posted a condolence
Monday, March 23, 2015
Outstanding Coach and advocate for women's sports. She will be missed but never forgotten!
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Maria LaFonte Grasso posted a condolence
Monday, March 23, 2015
I remember Ms Cole to be a class act. She has had an impact on so many field hockey players over the years . My condolences to the Cole and Tucker family. Rest in peace.
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Janice posted a condolence
Monday, March 23, 2015
Your leadership and influence went well beyond the hockey field. We're all better, stronger women for having known you, and hopefully, we can pay that forward. Peace be with you and your family.
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Stephen Schwab posted a condolence
Monday, March 23, 2015
I always knew Ms. Cole to be a kind, caring person, coach, and mentor to many. Reading these reminds me of this, and how much of an impact she had on so many lives. These are the results of a successful coach. I always had great respect for her and I'm sure she realizes how important a person she was to all that had the good fortune to have known her.
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Karen Regan (Wittenbecker) posted a condolence
Monday, March 23, 2015
Playing Field hockey for Ms. Cole from 1976-78. Some of my best days of HS were on the field. Her smile will always be remembered.
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Donna McInnes Rizzo posted a condolence
Monday, March 23, 2015
Had Ms. Cole for gym, she was a great teacher. I remember her being a great field hockey coach! May she RIP!
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Madeline Fornsel Bay posted a condolence
Monday, March 23, 2015
So sorry to hear of Ms. Cole's passing. She was an awesome PE teacher at Centereach HS, helping and encouraging ALL her students, no matter their abilities. She has, always will be be fondly remembered.
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Carol Cornelius McEnany posted a condolence
Monday, March 23, 2015
You were my field hockey coach your first year of teaching at Centereach, almost right out of college. You and Mrs. McDermott were so young, but already so wise in so many meaningful ways. Your influence has sustained its power for many years, and extended to many more than you could know! Peace.
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Sally Higginbotham posted a condolence
Monday, March 23, 2015
No more sickness, no more suffering, no more sorrow. Free as a bird…
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Sue Fantel posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
The best physical ed, coach and friend. Rest in peace.
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Eileen Donnellan posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
Simply One of the BEST...Rest In Peace - "Sis"...Hun-Ya-Ha
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Mara Frattasio posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
Across an ocean, the sadness is heavy. Mrs. Cole was good to me. She was one of a handful of people who helped shape my life. I am just one of many. Witty, kind, thoughtful, most of all genuine. She is great, and I am so lucky to have known her. She will live through all of us. xo Love Mârâ
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Jeanne Williams posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
Not very often is there a person with a spirit and someone that positively touches so many lives. It's extremely hard to sum up how much of an impact you have had on my life and the others around you. I would never have been the persons I am today without such an amazing role model, coach and teacher. People who haven't been coached by you see the results and numbers; wins and championships. The women you have coached remember winning isn't everything, but being a humble athlete shines brightest. You have instilled in hundreds of athletes the confidence and motivation to conquer the field and life. I will never forget the sound of your voice or the enthusiasm in your heart while crouching to field level to get your message across. The world lost one of the best today.. HUN-YA-HA
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April posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
I remember her always being helpful,she didn't have favorites,and very encouraging,she will be missed
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Ce DeMarco posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
I will always remember our summer weeks in Truro. You somehow always ended up on clean up duty and never once complained. Your laugh was infectious.
You were so kind to send a heart shaped rock in memory of Anne. I know Paula and Anne are laughing with you as I write. Save a seat for me at the table...you will be missed.
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Ann Herold Buckley posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
I remember vividly when Sally and I, as very early adolescents, would sneak into Nancy's bedroom when she wasn't there (I think maybe she was in college). I remember loving that room...the pink hair curlers strewn about the floor, hockey sticks laying around, and thinking "I'd love to be a teenager like this!". There was a picture of Nancy on the desk, and I always thought about how beautiful she was. She was the older sister I never had and admired from afar. Thank you, Nancy, for the sweet memories.
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donna deptuch posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
Sending hugs to family and friends. Nancy was an incredible athlete, teacher, and coach. She was such a positive influence on womens sports on Long Island. She made a difference.
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Donna Sartory posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
Ms. Cole was my softball coach and gym teacher in the 70s. She always encouraged me and her spirit and enthusiasm were so contagious that you couldn't help doing your best and having fun at the same time. She is playing in heaven now.
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Ellen Schlafer posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
Nancy and I were fast friends in high school. We had most of our classes together and played field hockey, volleyball and softball together. Memories of Friday nights in her Model A Ford came flooding back, and my younger brother just reminded me that age age six, Nancy made him feel good about having the chicken pox when we had her 16th birthday party at my house. She was a loyal friend in high school and I feel remiss in not having kept up these last 50 years. What a wonderful legacy she has left. Nancy, you will live forever in my heart.
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Joy Malchodi posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
I lost my friend of 48 years on Tuesday.
We talked every single day and sometimes twice a day. We spoke Monday morning and that night I had an urge to call again but we both do not like to talk at night so I put the phone down because I knew we would speak the next day. Lesson learned.
She wrote me an amazing note - very funny, thoughtful, and of course sad. I want to share one thing she said to me -":Joy I am not afraid" She is the bravest person I know!
My problem now is that I need to call Nancy to tell her what happened to Nancy!
Hey NJ say hi to Janis for me!
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Diane Ciarallo posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
Words cannot express the sadness I feel for the Passing of such a wonderful gym teacher, Nancy Cole. She was an inspiration to all of us and we thank her for her kindness, patience, and guidance. We will always remember you Ms. Cole.
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Lois Elsinger posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
Nancy was an integral part in the growth of girls athletics in Suffolk County. A true professional who left her mark both on and off the field. I'm sure she will be organizing a field hockey team of angels! Thanks for all your contributions to Section XI athletics.
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Susan Israelian-Barbella posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
She was a very kind woman who taught me and was my daughter's field hockey coach.
May blessings on your journey Ms.Cole.
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Carol Smith Capper posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
Oh Gracie,
I'm going to miss you so much. You were a wonderful coach and friend. I'll always remember our year with you at Hillside Rd and all the fun times we had together at the *back* of restaurants. :) You actually made being back on Long Island fun. I had a beer tonight in your honor. It was good.
Love you,
Smitty xoxo
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Anne Lunghi posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
A wonderful coach but an even better person. Coached our daughter Cathy for 4 years in Centereach HS and was extremely helpful in getting her a scholarship to UCONN. Our heart felt sympathy goes out to her family.
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kathy McGrory posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
Nancy was an extraordinary person.she had a tremendous passion for sports...she showed woman that they can count in a man's world..... ms Cole may you rest in peace heaven has gotten a mother Angel...to her family and friends she will be missed by all....
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Diana Calise Barter posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
I remember it being my 1st Varsity Field Hockey practice in 9th grade and it being Ms. Cole's 1st practice with us as a new Coach to Centereach High...her first pep talk to us was her telling us that "she doesn't care if we win or lose and doesn't expect us to win every game but she just expects us to work hard and give 100% of ourselves ...all for one and one for all ...and she would be
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result"...I think we were so impressed with her that not only did we win but we were Undefeated for 4years...because we loved her!!! She was an awesome person and a truly respected Coach!!!
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Gina Pellicani-Walling posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
Centereach Field Hockey will always be the strongest memories of my high school life. Luckily, I got to continue to speak with Coach after high school when I was lobbying to begin a field hokey program at SUNY New Paltz, and finally, when I began coaching field hockey myself at her Alma Mater Northport. After every game she attended she would stay and speak to me. After a very tough loss to Ward Melville in double overtime she gave me words of wisdom to bring into the locker room for my own team, but as I stood there listening, I knew a little part of that advice was also going into me as the coach. She ALWAYS had the right words, and I struggle to find the right words for her now. I wish I had them Coach. The best I can do is say you will be greatly missed. Hun-Ya-Ha!
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Melissa Moscater posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
One day after coaching a game, the official walked over to me and asked where I had played in high school When I told him Centereach, he responded, "I knew you had to be one of Nancy's girls." There is no higher compliment I could receive.
Being one of "Nancy's girls" is one of the greatest blessings of my life and it reaches far beyond field hockey. I am a better and stronger person because she was a part of my life.
My deepest condolences to Coach's family. Please find comfort in the knowledge that her influence is still being spread through those of us she molded. Thank you for sharing her with us.
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Eileen posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
She was a bundle of field hockey energy! I can still her voice from watching the Ward Melville team this past season, "Anticipate, anticipate!" She was, and forever will be, a coach.
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Kathleen Butler posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
Nancy made a difference in the life of so many people- students, teachers, friends. What a wonderful legacy. RIP
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Erin Conroy posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
Blessed to have you on my journey. Hun-Ya-Ha.
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Chris Holden posted a condolence
Sunday, March 22, 2015
The few times we beat Centereach in my 30+year career were special because it meant we beat the best. I always envied, respected, and learned from Nancy. I miss you, my "Ton" friend. I hope you have found peace in this final journey.
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Cathy Luciano posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
Very sad news. Nancy certainly had a remarkable life. We were classmates at Northport High School and though I did not know her well she was known by everyone in the school for her athletic abilities and I am sue we had a few classes together. Gone too soon. RIP
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Gregg Geller posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
From kindergarten (we were in Miss Mathewson's class) to high school (we played tennis--mixed doubles--against each other nearly every day, weather permitting) to the get-togethers and reunions of recent years (60 years after kindergarten) Nancy radiated the positive energy, the competitive spirit, the enthusiastic friendship that made her such an exceptional and unforgettable person. What wonderful a legacy she leaves.
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Susan C. posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
Nancy was our neighbor for over 22 years but we really got to know her when my daughter Kelsey, showed an interest in playing field hockey as a freshman at Ward Melville high school 5 yrs ago. She was instrumental in helping her get started - even giving my daughter her 1st stick to use and had an obvious love of the game that was infectious. Her enthusiasm and love for all things field hockey was obvious to all who knew her- in the 4 yrs my daughter played varsity FH, Nancy attended many of the games both home and away. Nancy's presence in the world of field hockey will be greatly missed. It was an honor to call her our neighbor, coach and friend. May she rest in peace.
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Karen B. Leshin posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
As I attended educational conferences in various states, whenever I mentioned Middle Country School District, someone always said, "Isn't that the district where Nancy Cole coaches field hockey?". I soon began to realize that she was recognized and respected far and wide. She always cared about her team members not just as athletes but as people. She took a career risk by filing a Title IX complaint. Nancy was very well respected by her friends and she had many. She mentored her colleagues. She was bright, witty, and caring. She always loved her little West Highland Terriers. I remember fondly her parents attending field hockey games and bringing one of her Westies. Rest in Peace, Nancy...you legacy will live on in all those you coached, mentored, taught and friended.
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Terry Kix posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
Ms.Cole my friend, mentor & inspiration you will be missed dearly! I am extremely thankful & blessed for the impact you have on my life and so many! My heart is aching but I wil forever have memories of happiness and laughter! May you and your loved ones be in peace! Miss you ! Hun -ya-ha!! Terry
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Kathie Fitzgerald posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
Camogie is the Irish equivalent of field hockey. A player is a camog and this is called the Camog's Prayer. I offer it for Nancy Jean, my oldest friend.
Give me, o Lord, a camog’s skill
With strength of arm and speed of limb
Unerring eye for the flying ball
And courage to match them whatever
befall
May my aim be steady, my stroke be true
My actions brave, my misses few
And no matter which way the game may go
May I part in friendship with every foe
When the final whistle for me is blown
And I stand at last at the Judgement Throne
May the great Referee when she
calls my name
Say, “You played with courage, you played the game!”
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Mary McLaughlin posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
Nancy always a spring to her step and usually a smile on her face! She had a quick wit and a good take on things. She was loyal to her team and to her friends. I am sorry that we didn't keep in touch after retirement. She will be remembered fondly...
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Nora Beeman posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
Always a wonderful smile and laugh. Never to be forgotten. x0x0x0x0x
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Alene Abrams posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
Girls' sports has the prominence it does today because of the efforts of people like Nancy Cole. Her dedication to her players, the concept of team and gender equality are the tenets that I saw as Nancy. So many were blessed to be able to call her 'Coach' and friend. RIP.
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Nancy Kondub- Harris posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
Nancy was a warm, loving person and a tremendous teacher & coach.
The times coaching with her at UConn FH camps will always bring smiles and laughter to all.
God bless you, Nancy - you are in our hearts & prayers. Love, Knubs
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Pat Metcalf posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
Having coached against and with Nancy for many years I came to know one of the most beautiful people God put on this earth. She taught me many things about coaching and life on numerous road trips. Her ultimate tribute is the remembrances from all her former players. Rest in peace, dear friend.
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Lori Breier Strong posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
Ms Cole was the best coach I ever had. She pushed me harder physically and mentally than I thought I could handle and always knew how to get more out of us. We were scrappy ants that worked stronger together as a team and she was our fearless leader, always motivating and cheering us on, always knowing what to say. I am forever grateful for the work ethic she helped instill in me and for always believing in me. Hun-ya-ha!
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Diane D'Orazio posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
By far one of the nicest, professional Field Hockey coaches I have ever known in 25 years of officiating. She radiated kindness to her players and officials at all times. It was always a pleasure to officiate her teams. She will be sorely missed. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.
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Donna Cooke posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
NJ was intelligent, passionate, persistent and talented. I feel grateful that we had a friendship which transitioned from sharing coaching stories about players to advocating for women's sports and then to friendship. I will miss her humor and laughter. Love you
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Jennifer Gilman posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
I did not know my colleague and friend Sally Cole Tucker's sister Nance. Hearing how Nanc's life was spent supporting women's sports by instilling trust for one another and championing Title IX shows what a huge difference she made in this world. A woman who had great strength of character to be sure.
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Jillian Sherman posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
Ms.Cole was a great role model and an inspiration for all her students and athletes, especially us girls. A true champion and great example of sportsmanship. She believed in us all and helped us learn to believe in ourselves. When I blew out my knee junior year and thought all my hopes and dreams were destroyed she assured me it was just a bump in a long road ahead of me and that I would triumph through it. And she was right. Little did I know then she was about to face a battle of her own, but when she came back she gave me that "see, I told you" smile.
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Kristine (Williams) McCarren posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
Coach,
You taught me so much more than how to play field hockey. You taught me character, leadership, humor, humility, how to win (a lot) and lose (maybe once or twice ;)) with grace, how to laugh at ourselves and each other, and most of all, how to be part of a team. I also learned how to keep my laughter to myself if it you gave me "the face" or your back was hurting that day. Your office served as a gathering place, a therapy room, and maybe a place to get out of class here and there if we weren't feeling it that day. I stayed on track in my school work, not only for myself, but to make YOU proud. My high school years were shaped by Centereach Field Hockey and your guidance. Your loss is a huge one to me, my family, and anyone who crossed your path. I hope to teach my own children the values you instilled in me, on the field and off. May you rest in peace. Hun Ya Ha!
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Dianne Picone posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
It was an honor to have worked with such a role model for young women and a pleasure to have known such a kind and gentle soul. Rest in peace.
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Samantha Schroder posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
I write to extend my deepest condolences to Coach Cole's family, friends and players. My interest in field hockey at a young age unfolded into a passion once I met her, and was then blessed to be "an ant" under her and Coach Melfi's direction. She instilled in me so many life-long lessons and I'm forever grateful to have learned from the best. I'll never forget her preseason mailings, sense of humor and love for her players and the game. She created legacy unlike any other that will never be forgotten. Hun-Ya-Ha
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John & Christine Sullivan posted a condolence
Saturday, March 21, 2015
Our deepest sympathies on the loss of your sister. Please know we are thinking of you.
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Laurie Fletcher-Ford posted a condolence
Friday, March 20, 2015
Rest in peace and let your players continue your legacy and pass on your love for the sport and the team. - respectfully yours - fletch
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Kerri Hughes posted a condolence
Friday, March 20, 2015
Coach Cole, I'm struggling to find the words to describe just how much you meant to me and countless others. I am blessed to have had the opportunity to be coached by you. Your lessons will always be with me and I'll cherish the memories. If there is one thing I know for certain, it's that my life was made better simply by having you in it.
"Heroes get remembered, but legends never die." Coach Cole, you are a legend and your legacy is eternal. Hun-Ya-Ha
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Denise Paratore posted a condolence
Friday, March 20, 2015
ms cole,words cannot explain how I feel about your loss, you became a mentor a client, and most of all my friend!! I looked forward to your funny messages and for our once of month visits ! I will always keep your smiling face and your fun stories in my heart!!You will always be my Madison! I Love you and will miss you forever! Xoxox I just hope your one of my angels looking over me forever!!
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Colleen Barbieri-Cassada posted a condolence
Friday, March 20, 2015
Ms. Cole was not only a coach of sport, but of life. She taught me that life is not a dress rehearsal - that today is the only guarantee you get. Live life with joy and passion, as it ought to be lived. Be present, be attentive, be compassionate. Do things honestly, whole heartedly. Don't become anything. Be what you are. Coach Cole saw more in me than just an athlete and helped me to see it too. I can not thank her enough for helping me find my way after my brother died. She was someone who picked me up during my worst and helped me become the best version of myself. HUN-YA-HA!
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Nicole Rattay posted a condolence
Friday, March 20, 2015
Simply the Best! I am a better person because of Coach Cole. She always believed in me and I hear her voice whenever times get tough. "You got this, Nikki, just put the ball in the net! Forever grateful. Hun-Ya-Ha!
